Choose Your Boss Like Your Life Depends on It. Because It Does.
Same skill. Different boss. Two promotions in a year. The strongest predictor of how fast you get promoted is who signs your performance review.
I came back from maternity leave to a new boss. And suddenly I was doing his job and mine.
He took credit when it landed. He disappeared when it didn't.
For a long time... I thought the problem was ME.
So... I worked harder. I stayed later. I picked up the slack.
Even when it meant missing bedtime with my newborn.
Spoiler... nothing changed.
Then I changed companies and got a different boss.
A year into my new job, I had already been promoted twice.
Nothing about ME had changed.
Everything about who signed my performance review had.
In 16 years recruiting for Fortune 100s, I watched the same pattern over and over.
The strongest predictor of how fast someone got promoted... was NOT their skill.
It was who they reported to.
Your boss is one of the 3 most influential people in your life.
They decide your visibility. Your stretch projects. Your time off.
They decide whether your name comes up when leadership talks about who gets promoted next.
And whether you go home proud... or go home asking yourself what's wrong with you.
Choose your boss like your life depends on it.
Because it does.
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Frequently Asked Questions
Why does your boss matter more than your skill for promotion?
In 16 years recruiting for Fortune 100 companies, the strongest predictor of how fast someone got promoted was not their skill. It was who they reported to. Your boss decides your visibility, your stretch projects, your time off, and whether your name comes up when leadership talks about who gets promoted next.
What happens when the same person changes bosses?
Everything can change without you changing at all. Lindsay went from being blamed for missed targets under one boss to being promoted twice in a year under a different one. Nothing about her had changed. Everything about who signed her performance review had.
How do you evaluate a boss before you accept a role?
Choose your boss like your life depends on it. Because it does. Talk to people who report to them today. Notice how they handle credit, how they handle a miss, and whether they disappear when it lands badly. The person who signs your review decides whether you go home proud or go home asking yourself what's wrong with you.
