The Girl on the Left Did the Hardest Work of My Life. Then I Learned the Real Lesson About Willpower.

The girl on the left did the hardest work of my life. Now, I'm just maintaining what she built.

One year ago I hit my goal weight after losing 103 lbs.

But the version of me who started this journey is the one who actually deserves the credit.

For years I told myself I had no willpower. Turns out I had a metabolic syndrome.

I would wake up at 2am ravenous. I would eat something... and hate myself for it.

"You just don't have discipline." "You're not trying hard enough."

Then I got a continuous glucose monitor and learned the real lesson.

My blood sugar was crashing in the middle of the night. I was hypoglycemic... and my CGM showed dangerously low blood sugar.

My body wasn't asking for food because I was "weak" or because I lacked "willpower". In fact... my body had just been doing the very best job it could... which was actually just trying to keep me alive.

I had been gaslighting myself the whole time.

Once I got the medical help I actually needed (instead of trying to fix my willpower) everything changed.

The same thing goes for most of my clients.

They're smart. Successful. Incredible career histories.

Then they find themselves in need of a new job.

And the system tells them the same lie I bought about my willpower.

"Apply to more jobs." "Tweak your resume one more time." "Just keep going. It's a numbers game."

So they spray 350 applications into the void.

They get 3 calls back (if they're lucky). 0 offers.

And the story they tell themselves sounds exactly like mine used to.

"I must not be good enough." "Maybe my skills aren't relevant anymore." "What's wrong with me?"

Please listen to me when I say this -

You are NOT the problem. The system is broken.

And you've been trying to willpower your way through something that needs a completely different approach.

Just like my body needed medical intervention, your job search needs a different methodology.

Not more applications. Not more "hustle."

A real strategy to get hired without the broken system.

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